Summer vacation is the perfect time to visit with family you haven’t seen in awhile as you enjoy the leisure activities – and check up on how your parents are really doing.
Most of the time, everything will be fine. Dad might walk a little more slowly and perhaps mom tires more easily, but it’s great to get together year after year.
At some point, though, maybe you notice something more troubling – one of your parents is having trouble remembering, or a sudden weight loss has been ignored. That’s when the squeeze begins for the sandwich generation, with the difficult and complex steps you need to contemplate, including figuring out their financial and living situations.
You may find they haven’t been paying all their bills or medical costs might loom that threaten to deplete their savings. Thank goodness you are there for your parents. It will be a trying time for you, but in many cases it would be impossible for them without you. More